This is something that's been bugging me.
I get kinda pissy when people label sollies as "murderers" and "fake heroes" because they kill people. While I do sympathise a little regarding the deaths of innocent civilians, I have to disagree in regards to the enemy.
That, and most countries around the world allow their men (and women) to join the army voluntarily. If you still think soldiers are "murderers", then why don't you ask the soldiers themselves, who often volunteer?
If anything, the person you really should be blaming for pointless deaths is the government.